PET PERSPECTIVE: We are responsible for our pets' manners

--Originally published in the North County Times July 9:

As pet owners, we have a responsibility ---- to people and other pets ---- to manage our furry companions and ensure they are always on their best behavior. When you think about it, pet etiquette is really no different from human etiquette: We both have unspoken rules and guidelines for behaving in public, and we're both expected to be considerate of our neighbors and our community.

There are breaches of etiquette that really drive me crazy, and I'm sure you have your own peeves when it comes to "petiquette." Here are a few tips for having a socially dependable canine companion:

Always leash your dog: Allowing your dog to run off-leash is more than just poor etiquette. It's illegal and dangerous. San Diego County has a 6-foot leash law that is designed to protect both our dogs and the public. Leashed dogs are safe from cars and other hazards, and they can't get themselves into trouble by chasing other animals or children, digging in people's yards or knocking over garbage cans. If you insist on letting your dog run off leash, do some research to find designated off-leash areas, such as parks or beaches.

Never assume: Never assume that it's OK to approach a dog without asking its owner first. My pooch Blue is afraid of other dogs, so it can be traumatic for both of us when strange canines approach him quickly or get in his face. If you see another dog and owner approaching, always ask whether it's OK to say hi, and respect their response.

Always pick up after your dog: There really is no excuse for not cleaning up after your dog. Always bring along plenty of bags to pick up after your dog and dispose of the waste properly. Make sure that your dog potties on the dirt or curb ---- not on someone's lawn.

Don't assume, part 2: Don't assume that everyone is going to love your dog or cat. If you have people coming to your home, don't force your pets onto them. Try to clean up all the pet hair and let prospective guests know that you have animals ---- especially if they have allergies.

Good manners: Teach your dog basic manners, such as sit, down and settle. Excited dogs sometimes jump on people, which can be annoying, dangerous and scary to those who are nervous around animals. A good solution is to have your dog sit before you introduce him to people.

Don't self-invite your dog: Don't ask whether you can bring your dog to someone's home. If he's welcome to join you, your host will let you know. It's even worse to bring your dog along without an invitation.

Address noise complaints: Here at the Escondido Humane Society, we receive dozens of barking-dog complaints on a daily basis. We know it may be hard to accept that your dog isn't an angel while you are away from your home, but if you receive a noise complaint, please investigate and implement solutions to keep your noisy dog in check.

Our pets follow our lead and are often reflections of our own personalities and conduct. I hope these pet (and people) etiquette skills will help you and your pooch become perfect ambassadors for responsible pet parenting.